MARCH | For families in crisis

Let us pray that broken families might discover the cure for their wounds through forgiveness, rediscovering each other’s gifts, even in their differences.

Pope Francis – March 2025

We all dream about a beautiful, perfect family. But there’s no such thing as a perfect family. Every family has its own problems, as well as its tremendous joys.
Every member of the family is important because each member is different than the others, each person is unique. But these differences can also cause conflict and painful wounds.
And the best medicine to heal the pain of a wounded family is forgiveness.
Forgiveness means giving another chance. God does this with us all the time. God’s patience is infinite. He forgives us, lifts us up, gives us a new start. Forgiveness always renews the family, making it look forward with hope.
Even when there’s no possibility of the “happy ending” we’d like, God’s grace gives us the strength to forgive, and it brings peace, because it frees us from sadness, and, above all, from resentment.
Let us pray that broken families might discover the cure for their wounds through forgiveness, rediscovering each other’s gifts, even in their differences.

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Pope Francis: The best medicine to heal the pain of a wounded family is forgiveness

  • In the video illustrating his prayer intention for the month of March, the Pope asks us to pray “that broken families might discover the cure for their wounds.”
  • Pope Francis emphasizes that forgiveness always renews the family and allows family members to look ahead with hope. 
  • Even when a “happy ending” is not possible, forgiveness “brings peace, because it frees us from sadness and resentment.”

(Vatican City, 4 March 2025). –Pope Francis dedicates his prayer intention for the month of March to families in crisis. This is an increasingly more important theme in society today in which the number of separations and divorces is greater than marriages in many countries. In the video message produced by the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network that illustrates his intention, the Pope asks that we pray “that broken families might discover the cure for their wounds through forgiveness, rediscovering each other’s gifts, even in their differences.” 

The perfect family does not exist

Doors slamming, shouting at home in front of the children, strong arguments between parents and children, conflict between brothers and sisters – The Pope Video accompanying Pope Francis’s words shows scenes of family that most of us are familiar with. In fact, every family has its sufferings, its joys, and its crisis moments: “We all dream about a beautiful, perfect family. But there’s no such thing as a perfect family,” the Pope confirms.

Conflicts often originate because of differences between members of the family itself. This is why it is necessary to know how to respect and appreciate each person, with the conviction that everyone contributes something to family unity.

Pope Francis also states that when conflicts create deep wounds, “the best medicine to heal the pain of a wounded family is forgiveness.” Giving others another chance as God does with us, “forgiveness always renews the family, making it look forward with hope.” Even in those cases when restoring the family unit is not possible, when, in the words of the Pope, “there’s no possibility of the ‘happy ending’ we’d like,” forgiveness frees us from sadness and resentment.

However, as Pope Francis explains in his Apostolic Exhortation Amoris Laetitia, “experience shows that with proper assistance and acts of reconciliation, through grace, a great percentage of troubled marriages find a solution in a satisfying manner. To know how to forgive and to feel forgiven is a basic experience in family life.” What can be learned by surmounting a crisis is that “every new step along the way can help couples find new ways to happiness.”

Five pieces of advice for family living

Commenting on this month’s video, the International Director of the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network, Father Cristóbal Fones, S.J., explains several attitudes that can enhance a family’s daily life. “First of all, we need to accept everyone’s differences, considering them as an opportunity to enrich family relationships. The family unit is composed of different people who love and respect each other and try to learn from each other. Secondly, and closely related to the first, another basic attitude is that of appreciating others, recognizing their richness and gifts.”

This means we should try not to judge people. “We cannot expect others to be perfect, or their love to be perfect, in order to appreciate them. As Pope Francis says, the other person loves me as I am, and as he or she can, with their limitations and defects. But this does not mean that their love is not true.”

Understanding one’s own weaknesses, and those of others, leads to the most important attitude in the family – asking for forgiveness and forgiving when necessary. “We can learn from the Lord’s humility and mercy,” Father Fones continues. “It can be difficult to forgive the family member who hurts us deeply, because wounds caused by family members are usually the most painful. This is why it is always good to keep in mind that Jesus has forgiven us first, as Pope Francis often reminds us.”

The International Director for the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network ends his list of attitudes for daily life by referring to accompaniment. “The Christian community can and must be a place of acceptance, dialogue, prayer, and accompaniment. It is where families can find hope and help for reconciliation when is necessary, without feeling judged. Our model to follow is always that mercy our Lord has for us.

The Jubilee 2025 indulgence

Within the context of the Holy Year 2025, it is worth recalling that one of the conditions necessary to gain the indulgence granted on the occasion of the Jubilee is to pray for the intentions of the Supreme Pontiff. The Pope Video presents and distributes his specific intentions.

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About The Pope Video

The Pope Video is an official global initiative with the purpose of disseminating the Holy Father’s monthly prayer intentions. It is carried out by the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network (Apostleship of Prayer). Since 2016, The Pope Video has had more than 241 million views across all the Vatican’s social networks, and is translated into more than 23 languages, receiving press coverage in 114 countries. The videos are produced and created by The Pope Video Prayer Network team, coordinated by Andrea Sarubbi, and distributed with the help of La Machi Communication for Good Causes. The project is sponsored by Vatican Media. More information: The Pope Video.

About the Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network

The Pope’s Worldwide Prayer Network is a Pontifical Society, with the mission of mobilizing Catholics through prayer and action in response to the challenges facing humanity and the mission of the Church. These challenges are presented in the form of prayer intentions entrusted by the Pope to the entire Church. The foundation’s mission is inscribed in the dynamic of the Heart of Jesus, a mission of compassion for the world. It was founded in 1844 as the Apostleship of Prayer. It is present in 92 countries, and is made up of more than 22 million Catholics. It includes a youth branch, the Eucharistic Youth Movement (EYM). In July 2024, the Pope approved the definitive Statutes of this Pontifical Work (canonical and Vatican legal entity). Its international director is Father Cristóbal Fones, SJ. For more information, visit: www.popesprayer.va.

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